A Definition of Love

Love is teeny little drops of affections, sometimes it comes pounding down on the roof at another time it drizzles and plays.

It is both brute and lady mixing the rashness of fire with the calm of water and always ready to grow in the direction of the sunlight.

Love is: also patience, also communication, also being a bit more on top of the sheet of preference.

Don't judge the other just yet until you've genuinely applied the scale to your proud mind and little acts.

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