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LOVE AT THIS STAGE

Beautiful lovely damsel, her name was Mary.
She fell in love with a charming lad; kelvin
Kelvin then said to her, let's have fun and be merry.
But she said to him, I want to be a virgin up until the moment I marry.
He retorted you'd be the only one I'd he loving.
So why wait until we marry.
Mary succumbed after much of compelling.
But the next day kelvin was with sally.
- kola the fluid.
Pen name for adeosun adekola alade

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